Choosing the Right Wedding Vendors: A Bride’s Guide from Experience As A Vendor
- Chloe - Photographer

- Jan 30
- 6 min read

Planning a wedding is one of the most exciting and meaningful journeys you’ll ever take, but it can also feel overwhelming—especially when it comes to choosing the right suppliers. With so many talented vendors out there, knowing who to trust with your big day can feel like a daunting task.
Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of working alongside some truly incredible wedding professionals. I’ve seen firsthand how the right team can transform a vision into reality and, just as importantly, how they can help a bride feel calm, confident, and supported throughout the entire process.
From delicate florals that completely change the atmosphere of a space, to hair and makeup artists who help you feel like the very best version of yourself, every vendor plays a vital role in shaping your wedding day.
Through my own experience—and invaluable advice shared by past brides—I’ve learned that choosing vendors isn’t just about talent or price point. It’s about trust, connection, and knowing your team genuinely has your back.
In this post, I’m sharing my thoughts on the wedding vendors I’ve worked with and love, along with practical tips on what to look for when making your own choices.
Hair Stylists: Creating the Perfect Bridal Look
Your wedding hairstyle is such an important part of your overall bridal look. It should complement your dress, enhance your features, and—most importantly—feel like you. The right stylist won’t just recreate a Pinterest photo; they’ll design a look that suits your hair type, your day, and your personality.
What to look for:
Experience with Bridal Hair: Wedding hair is very different from everyday styling. Look for a stylist who regularly works with brides and understands how to create styles that photograph beautifully and last from morning prep to the final dance.
Comfort and Communication: Your trial is about more than just the finished look. Pay attention to how the stylist makes you feel. Do they listen? Do they explain what will and won’t work? A great stylist will collaborate with you and offer professional guidance without dismissing your ideas.
Long-Lasting Styles: Between hugs, happy tears, wind, and dancing, your hair needs to hold up. Ask about techniques, products, and how the style will evolve throughout the day.
What past brides say:
Many brides agree that a trial is absolutely essential. It gives you the opportunity to experiment, refine, and feel confident ahead of the big day.
One bride shared how much she appreciated a stylist who was patient with her nerves, reassuring her throughout the trial and making the entire experience feel calm and enjoyable.
Who I recommend:
Natasha Chanel (@natsahachanelhair)https://www.natasha-chanel.com
Karen Lees (@karenameliahair)Wedding Hairstylist | Karen Amelia Hair
Makeup Artists: Enhancing Your Natural Beauty
Your wedding makeup should enhance your features and make you feel radiant, confident, and completely yourself. Whether you love a soft, natural glow or something more glamorous, a skilled makeup artist knows how to balance your personal style with longevity and photography.
What to look for:
Bridal Makeup Expertise: Wedding makeup must look flawless in person and on camera. Choose an artist who understands lighting, skin tones, and how makeup wears over time.
A Trial Run: A makeup trial is your chance to fine-tune every detail. It’s also a great time to discuss skin concerns, allergies, and the products being used.
Personalisation: No two brides are the same. A great makeup artist will adapt their style to suit you, rather than applying a “one look fits all” approach.
What past brides say:
Many brides recommend bringing inspiration photos while staying open to professional advice.
One bride mentioned how grateful she was for an artist who adjusted tones and finishes to perfectly suit her skin and wedding theme.
Who I recommend:
Becky Howie (@beckyhowiemua)www.beckyhowiepromua.com
Sam (@bridalmakeupbysam)www.bridalmakeupbysam.com
Videographers: Capturing Every Special Moment
Your wedding day goes by in a blur. A videographer allows you to relive the moments you didn’t even realise were happening—the glances, the laughter, the emotion in your voices.
What to look for:
Filming Style: Some videographers take a documentary approach, while others create cinematic films. Watch full galleries to see what resonates with you.
Experience: Weddings move fast. An experienced videographer knows where to be, how to adapt to lighting changes, and how to capture moments without disrupting them.
Connection with the Couple: The best videographers blend seamlessly into the day, making you feel comfortable enough to be completely yourselves.
What past brides say:
Many brides say choosing a videographer was one of their best decisions, as video captured emotions photos simply couldn’t.
Others recommend discussing key moments in advance, such as vows or speeches, to ensure nothing is missed.
Who I recommend:
Jamie (@songbirdweddingvideos)www.songbirdweddingvideos.com
Ed and Luke (@westsussexweddingvideos)www.westsussexweddingvideos.com
Florists: Designing Your Dream Floral Arrangements
Flowers set the tone for your entire day. From your bouquet to your ceremony backdrop, florals bring colour, texture, and emotion to your wedding design.
What to look for:
Creativity and Expertise: A great florist will work within your budget while suggesting creative ways to make an impact.
Seasonal Knowledge: Choosing seasonal flowers not only helps with cost but ensures freshness and availability.
Attention to Detail: From buttonholes to table arrangements, details matter. Your florist should care about every element just as much as you do.
What past brides say:
Brides recommend being open and detailed when explaining your vision and asking for examples or mock-ups if you’re unsure.
One bride loved how her florist suggested adding greenery, giving her bouquet a fresh, modern feel.
Who I recommend:
Nicola Eve (@flowersbyeve)www.flowersbyeve.com
Kate D Bloom (@kate_d_bloom)www.katedbloom.com
Wildflower Studio (@wildflowerstudios)https://www.wildflowerstudioflorists.co.uk
Venues: The Perfect Setting for Your Big Day
Your venue is the backdrop to your entire celebration. It influences everything—from décor and layout to guest experience and flow of the day.
What to look for:
Style and Ambience: Choose a venue that aligns with your vision and feels right the moment you step inside.
Capacity and Layout: Consider guest numbers and how the space transitions from ceremony to reception.
Location and Accessibility: Think about parking, accommodation, and ease of access for guests.
What past brides say:
Many brides say visiting in person made all the difference.
Others stress the importance of a solid weather backup plan for outdoor ceremonies.
Who I recommend (Top 5):
Cissbury Barns (@cissbury) – www.cissburybarns.com
Pelham House (@pelhamhouse) – www.pelhamhouse.com
Pangdean Old Barn (@pangdeanbarn) – www.pangdean.com
Penny Hill Park (@pennyhillpark) – www.pennyhillpark.com
The Vines (@thevinesofrochester) – www.thevinesofrochester.com
Bridal Dresses: Finding Your Dream Gown
Your wedding dress should make you feel incredible. The right gown is one that reflects your style and makes you feel confident the moment you put it on.
What to look for:
Style and Fit: Be open-minded—many brides fall in love with a style they never expected.
Quality and Craftsmanship: Look closely at fabrics, structure, and finishing details.
Alterations and Timing: Allow plenty of time for fittings and alterations to avoid last-minute stress.
What past brides say: Starting early is key.
One bride shared that saying “yes” to trying something unexpected led her to her dream dress.
Who I recommend:
Art of Couture (@art.of.couture)www.artofcouture.co.uk
Bride by Aster (@bridebyaster)www.bridebyaster.com
Celebrants: Leading You Through Your Ceremony
Your ceremony is the heart of your wedding day, and your celebrant plays a huge role in shaping its tone and meaning.
What to look for:
Personalisation: A great celebrant will take the time to truly understand your story.
Professionalism: Confidence, organisation, and clear communication are essential.
Connection: You should feel comfortable and at ease—it makes all the difference.
What past brides say:
Brides often mention how a personalised ceremony made the day feel deeply meaningful.
Others appreciate celebrants who are flexible and open to creative ideas.
Who I recommend:
Sarah (@sarahsweeneycelebrant)www.sarahsweeneycelebrant.co.uk
Melanie (@lemonade_ceremonies)www.lemonadeceremonies.co.uk
DJs: Setting the Tone for the Reception
A great DJ doesn’t just play music—they create atmosphere, energy, and unforgettable moments on the dance floor.
What to look for:
Experience and Music Knowledge: They should know how to read the room and adapt throughout the night.
Professionalism and Planning: Clear communication and timeline coordination are essential.
Equipment and Backup Plans: Always confirm sound quality and contingency plans.
What past brides say:
Brides love DJs who welcome requests while maintaining the flow of the evening.
Many recommend providing a “Do Not Play” list.
Who I recommend:
Mint DJs (@mintdjs)www.mintdjs.com
Adam Keen (@keenmobiledjservices)www.keenmds.co.uk
Final Thoughts
Choosing the right wedding vendors can truly make or break your experience. Each supplier brings their own expertise, creativity, and energy to your day, and finding the right fit is just as important as finding the right style.
I hope this guide gives you clarity, confidence, and reassurance as you plan your wedding. With the right team around you, you can relax, enjoy every moment, and trust that your day will unfold beautifully—just as it should.



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